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Fetcon 2026

That’s right, FrolicBB will be at
Fetishcon 2026 in St. Petersburg, FL
Tickets are still available at Fetishcon.Com
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Tyrus, our Shibari Artist, is available for multiple types of shoots & lessons. Either as a host or hired.ย  Discounted menu rates or trades are available if the content is provided to us with a signed release, and within the scope of our sites. Also Available through ScaredShirtless.com for more intense vs. our artistic photo and educational content we do here.

  1. For Simple Scenes, practice sessions, or educational opportunities, Reach Out via our Basic contact page.
  2. To request to shoot at FetCon, use this FrolicBB FetCon Contact Form for the event.

For the purpose of this list and any communication,
Shibari is used interchangeably to include Kinbaku.

Video or Stills/Photos:

  • Stills/Photo Sets are trade only unless you are the one hiring
  • Video:
    • Discounted FetCon Rates available,
    • Limited hiring available (Minimum Time Restrictions apply)

Loose Themes and related categories

  • Beauty : Shibari
  • Statements: Shibari, BDSM
  • Challenges: Shibari, BDSM, time, or activity challenges
  • Contortion: Shibari
  • Fetish/kinks: feet, tickle or tickle tease, food, bdsm, shibari, etc.
  • Damsel in distress: See Menu; I only assist in these. Most of my bondage is Shibari or a deeper/more intense BDSM theme.
  • Erotic: Visual concepts, self masturbation, two people, orgasm (Squirting, Forced, Denial, teased, or otherwise controlled.
  • Other Concepts and themes as negotiated.

Share your theme and concepts if you’re interested in working together.

Categories and themes they may apply to:

  • Shibari : beauty, challenges, statements, fetish, and contortion
  • Bdsm: challenges, beauty, statements, kinks, and fetishes,
  • Tickling: Restrained only: Specify: Tickle tease or tickle torture? Tickle torture is generally its own session; tickle tease is less intense and part of a greater set.
  • Feet/Foot Fetish: Restrained only: I am a shibari/bdsm artist and feet sets I work on are generally a part of a shibari or other set
  • IMPACT: Flogging, Caning, etc.
  • Electric: TENS, Violet wand, remote control, etc.
  • Challenges: Yes, are you wanting
    • Endurance? (What kind?)
    • Breath Control?
    • Contortion (I love to play pretzel with your body in rope)
    • Plus electric, Impact, Tickling, and Orgasm challenges.

CONTACT US

– BASIC <<CONTACT US>> PAGE

– FrolicBB’s FETCON PROJECT FORM
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A: FROLICBB: PORTFOLIO

B: SCAREDSHIRTLESS: SAMPLES HERE ON FROLICBB

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Level of Dress, Modesty, Etc.

You are ultimately in charge; everything is negotiated, however, as a general rule, depending on the theme, less is more:

Artistic sets & nudity:

If you want an artistic set, please keep it modest and avoid full-on “in-your-face” nudity. Bootie shorts, panties, or swim bottoms are fine. Please avoid thongs, as it can be hard to keep naughty bits covered. If you’re ok with modest crotch shots, keeping things covered can be a challenge when being a pretzel and having smaller panties or swimwear. I don’t want to have to fix that; hence bootie shorts. If you have a friend, they can fix it. That said, implied or nude but fully closed, sharp angles, or otherwise teasing or hiding naughty bits is a possibility. Caveat: I generally do not pay for artistic stills/sessions. I do these as a trade. A joint project where we both can benefit. Otherwise, unless it’s a commission, there isn’t enough demand for me to recover my expenses. The same goes for “Statement” or “Shock” Pieces. If you want to make a statement, let’s do it. (NOTE: With Shibari, the typical artistic set, you should beware of danglies, strings, jewels, etc. These can all get caught in the rope, create pressure points, rip, or create unwanted visual noise in imagery.)

BDSM and Nudity:

This is entirely up to our negotiation. If we have a good set, the BDSM itself could be enough to sell. However, nudity is typical for many BDSM shoots.

Anonymity (Faces):

Blurring images essentially makes them useless. Only shooting from the back makes the set unnatural and useless. Masks are a possibility, but frequently unnatural. Yes, even for a full BDSM set, if we are paying, we expect the mask to come off at least once. If for no other reason than for a pre/post scene interview.

Anonymity (Tattoos):

Hiding tattoos may significantly reduce the sceneโ€™s value. Covering them with draping, using harsh angles, and making post-production modifications are possible, but they require significant work. Blurring or using only limited angles can also make the set look bad and lose value. For artistic shooting, we may be able to mask a small tattoo on still images.

Tickling: (Modesty if frequently desired)

Nudity is NOT required for a tickling shoot, and we typically want at least some partially covered imagery. Any pay is for the signed release and recording of forced tickling, “Tickle Torture”, NOT for “nudity.”

Rigger n Tops vs Bunnies, Bottoms, Fliers, and Rope Receivers

If you remember the pain I had coming to terms with
TOPS & BOTTOMS?
The pain continues with rope.

On the “top” side, it’s pretty simple; most are okay with “rigger” or “top.” However, on the recipient side, it gets a little more complicated.

Part of the issue goes along with the different interpretation for top & bottom on the BDSM side of things vs the LGBTQ side of things.

Since “bottom” is often referred to as a sub, many people don’t want to be called a bottom, and “bunny” also doesn’t fit many people’s persona. Thus, people often request other terms. Two common terms are fliers and rope receivers.

Obviously, if you don’t suspend, “flyer” may not fit, but then, are you mentally flying high in sub-space with groundwork? Oh wait, did I just say “sub”

OMG, so confusing.
Tell me what you want to be called, and we’ll go from there.


P.S. Some might still refer to their rope top as a dom or master, maybe saying “Sir?” This, too, is acceptable. After all, that is referring to their dynamic, and then saying their physical role “Ties Me.”

Thus, in addition to rigger/top, and bottom et al., we have Tie’er and Tie-ee, as well as persons tying or getting tied.

Top/Bottom vs Dom/Sub

Top / Bottom refers to the physical acts, while
dom/sub refers to the mental or psychological.
i.e., mental vs physical roles of the players.

Yes, you can dom from the bottom, and it’s okay. DO NOT let people give you a hard time for it. Yes, often negatively portrayed as “Topping from the Bottom.” That also means Service Top is acceptable and a fantastic thing.

Check it out, what about Riggers n Bunnies?
Are they tops and bottoms?

I like this graphic and their wording:

NOTE: The graphic comes from someone in the Queer community, and comes with the following disclaimer:

“Disclaimer: BDSM concepts may differ, and may even vary from community to community.” These conflicting and often vague & emotional views are the reasons it took me so long to come to terms with and find the best wording. The version depicted in the graphic is, in my mind, the most accurate and comprehensive version I have seen.
I would like to see the BDSM community come to terms with and adopt this version.
This confusion is why I DO NOT LIKE the Wikipedia versions:
A: “Human sexuality”/Top, Bottom, Versatile; LGBTQ & Straight, but initially by way of the LGBTQ [“Gay Men’s”] community.
B: “BDSM”/Top, Bottom, Switch; “Active, Passive Versatile, are OLD, and only apply to Gay Sex [these days].”

bdsm, queer, top, bottom, dom, dominant, sub, submissive, queer, versatile, switch, side, definition
  • Top/Bottom: It’s Physical: A position or act
    • Top: The active or insertive role
    • Bottom: The passive or receiving role
    • Virs/Versatile: Can switch roles, taking a top or bottom position/role
      Essentially, they are both a top & a bottom
    • Side: Doesn’t like insertion
    • Frequently not BDSM related
      (BDSM & Sexual usage may differ)
  • Dom/Sub: It’s Psychological: Consensual power dynamic
    • Dom: Power Role, Leader, Guide, Protector
    • Sub: Guided or Dominated
    • Switch: Someone who is sometimes dominant, other times is a sub. Sometimes, negotiated role changes occur as quickly as in a single scene. At other times or for other people and dynamics, it may require a different scene, possibly even days of separation.
    • Often Non-Sexual
  • Neither can be determined as a bystander from the sidelines just from mannerisms.
    • Plenty of dominant people are passive, and subs can be vocal or loud.
    • The same applies to Top/Bottom, although being physical acts, you can observe them at that moment. NOTE: only at that moment.

Thanks to Candiliquor with Boundaries and Bondage for sharing this (July 31, 2024) { #blackfacesinkinkspaces }. Although the graphic is at least 2 years older (2022 or earlier) and designed by Douglass_fir >> douglass_fern with graphics by Gan Khoon Lay PLEASE NOTE: FrolicBB has shared the updated version.
(Updated September 8, 2022)

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