Questions & Questionnaires

  • Hanky Code! ( Wikipedia / … )
  • Quick n Dirty (a health assessment)
  • Quick n Dirty (whats the plan): Interests & Activities: Yes, No, Implied (Old 2010 version)
    • Left over note from the past re the “Old 2010 version” above: Below you will find a link to a generic model questionnaire. It is designed mostly for some recent modeling gigs.Our focus tends to be alternative or fetish, and that is the focus of the questionnaire. As such is it a simple one page rights and one page questionnaire. Because we are not a dating group, not a sex group, etc, it does not address the sex or relationship issues. NOTE: Its not strictly a rope questionnaire. It includes topics which may be more for concept shoots, or live events with more than just rope activities.
  • Jay Wiseman: I call him osha of the kink community but has so much more to offer…
    • jaywiseman.com : Authored and Co-authored ~21 book available on his site as well as a few videos and general merch.
    • Jay’s Negotiation form (Gifted to the community creative commons):
      • Long (Web / PDF)
      • Short* (Web / PDF)
      • * Includes my addendum (Experience level & Are you able to speak up with the person you’re playing/performing with)
    • Kink Quiz are you kinky? What’s your persuasion?
      (That novelty quiz everyone is taking and posting)
      • https://www.kinktest.org/
      • https://bdsmtest.org/
      • Full kink list…. (Will take you a week, and it will change again and again, and again — I suggest retaking at least 4 times in your first year of kink activity, and again annually there after. Though, you’ll probably naturally add and remove things over time without retaking this. Over time, it becomes an interesting look at how you have changed vs a negotiation piece. )
    • FRIES: this could be listed under ethics, but I think it should also be front and center to keep in mind as you complete these. Consent…
      • F. Freely given
      • R. Reversible/ (revocable? )
      • I. Informed
      • E. Enthusiastic
      • S. Specific

Major update Summer 2022

Covid delay: this page was previously old as of 2019/2020, But has been updated in 2022. Major changes include:

  • Removal of greenery press whom no longer publishing
  • Added Jay Wiseman’s checklist which he gifted to the community here at FrolicBB. (Since we used to link to it at Greenery press)
  • Update of Quick n Dirty It “was” for a play style of Kink Modeling. If you’re looking for more full on kink or more edge and emotional stuff i.e. non-rope, non- art, non-public stage (It still covered stage stuff, but that has been/will be moved/added to a different section.